21 Lessons Upon Turning 21

1) Skincare, haircare and clothes is important. Do not be afraid of being judged by people who won't like you if you dress your best. They're not worth it. Feel your best always. Don't give a shit about what people think.
2) Pick a few really good friends whose character you want to grow to become, and be kind to everyone else.
3) Be consistent in what you want to do.
4) Leverage on your strengths, ignore your weaknesses.
5) Follow your dreams but always have a backup plan.
6) If someone makes you feel uncomfortable/ shitty (in general, not specific incidences), avoid that person as much as possible. No time to waste on people who'll suck your energy away.
7) Love is about compromising and upholding your promises
8) Never criticize anyone, they'll never listen anyway - no matter how well-intended your criticism is
9) Digital marketing is my muse
10) Never stop hustling
11) Parents are growing old, need to spend more time with them.
12) Old friends are gold, but never forget to stop communicating with them.
13) Invest in good tools that you use daily in your life. Don't compromise for second grade items because your daily mood will really be affected. Think: Cell phone***, computer***, calculator, chair, table, wallet, waterbottle....
14) People who are true leaders do not dominate, they make everyone feel comfortable and like them.
15) People who are truly smart and intelligent are not afraid to share and understand the power of collaboration.
16) If you are gonna do something different, don't expect everyone to like your choice. Do it anyway.
17) Follow your gut feeling on people, choices and issues. Most of the time, it's right.
18) Build your personal brand.
19) Don't do things that don't make you feel alive - it's a waste of time ultimately.
20) Stop watching tv, waste of time.
21) You attract the love you think you deserve.